10 Signs Guy is in Love

10. You’ve forgotten your ex

More often than not, a breakup is followed by a significant amount of time spent thinking about your ex and wondering whether or not you made the right decision in going your separate ways. Depending on how long the two of you were together, these doubts can resurface again and again.
Ever since you met this new one, however, the thought of getting back together with your ex is the furthest thing from your mind. Come to think of it, you barely recall what you found so great about her in the first place.

9. You can’t stop thinking about her

Instead, you are consumed by thoughts of her. She just pops into your head for no apparent reason, and you wonder if she thinks of you half as much as you think of her. You wonder what she’s up to and even consider calling her (but refrain from doing so for fear of looking overeager).

But it gets worse. You’re out with your friends and you see something in a shop window and think about how much she would like that particular item, or you notice a poster for a show that she would love, but normally wouldn’t even have looked twice at it.

If she’s the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first thing on your mind when you wake up ‑- and you’ve even dreamed of her on a couple of occasions ‑- then you don’t really even need to read on to know if you’re in love (but should anyway, just to be sure).

8. You care about her

There is a reason why you don’t really want to know too much about the chick you had a one-night stand with: You don’t love her. When you’re in love with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she is, what she thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her and her feelings.

If you truly love a woman, you feel bad if she had a bad day or is upset about something. You don’t try to cheer her up because you have to, but because you can’t help it.

7. You find her quirks charming

The fact that she carries her passport with her everywhere she goes ‑- just in case ‑- and that, when she’s eating, she can’t help but construct every forkful so that it’s the perfect blend of ingredients fills you with an inexplicable feeling of happiness.

She does and says things that make her different, and you like it. You can’t quite put your finger on why, but it doesn’t even matter. You like her just the way she is.

6. You have great chemistry

You can’t be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If you seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar ways, that’s a great sign. If you also generate enough heat to set off a five-alarm fire bell, then she is probably someone that you could fall in love with, if you aren’t there already.

5. You don’t notice other women as much

Did you see that gorgeous blonde that just walked by? What do you mean, “no”?!?

Although you can’t help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by, when you’re in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar, while others just pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don’t seem to be flirting half as much as you used to.

You are slowly realizing that she’s often the only woman in the room that matters, and for some reason that suits you just fine.

4. You love spending time with her

This one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless. You look forward to seeing her, and don’t care much about what the two of you will be doing. Lately, just going for a walk with her sounds like the best way you could possibly spend an evening.

Furthermore, when you’re not together, you miss her and wish you were spending time together

3. You don’t mind compromising sometimes

There was a time when it was your way or the highway, but with her it’s different. Not that she asks you to, but you don’t mind missing a night out with the guys to be with her. And you find yourself trying to incorporate her into your plans or altering them to accommodate her.

You also find yourself not putting up a fight when she wants to go to Shakespeare in the Park. Although your friends find this very amusing, you know that deep down, they wish that they had found a love like yours.

2. Other priorities take a back seat

You used to train religiously, but lately, if she’s free for dinner, you don’t mind missing a workout. Not only that, but your workaholic tendency of bringing home your work on weekends to get ahead seems a bit excessive to you as of late.

Your ever-important “to do” list seems quite stagnant these days, as being with her always manages to render your other plans and obligations obsolete. What was it that you absolutely had to do by four o’clock again?

1. You start thinking about the future and she’s in it

It used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on Saturday night, but with this woman, the future seems infinite. Not only do you plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a year from now as well.

When planning your next vacation, you know you want to spend it with her, and not a random beach bunny you happen to meet while you’re there. And when you get an invitation to a wedding that takes place three months from now, you ask her to be your date without thinking that it’s too far away to tell if you’ll still be together.

She’s the one

If you are currently dating a woman that makes you act in any of the ways mentioned above, then you, my friend, are seriously falling for her. It’s time to put away the little black book for a while and enjoy the ride.

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30 Comments (+add yours?)

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    Aug 04, 2008 @ 22:04:30

    Merci Bouquets!
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  2. mmagnolia
    Aug 05, 2008 @ 15:55:02

    All Dears! Gosh & Golly—Exact same *10* can apply nicely2Gal-in-Love!


  3. Colesie
    Jan 19, 2009 @ 14:58:32

    dammit! i got 10 out of 10!! looks like im head ova heels!! good job really considering shes havin my baby!!! :D


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  5. Cindy Holman
    Feb 09, 2009 @ 14:08:03

    Very Good! I agree :)


  6. naijagirl
    Feb 24, 2009 @ 16:06:39

    right on mark….good job


  7. emmiemears
    Mar 28, 2009 @ 07:09:09

    well-written. :)

    although for me a bit painful.


  8. lizilla
    Apr 03, 2009 @ 12:36:50

    Hmmm, those are soooo true


  9. perpetualwords
    Apr 13, 2009 @ 05:37:53

    Great post. All true. :)


  10. scarletmandy
    Apr 30, 2009 @ 09:23:34

    I need to forward this to someone LOL ;)


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    May 24, 2009 @ 17:57:14

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  12. Sergiu
    Jun 03, 2009 @ 08:42:02

    yup, u’r right.. all are true.


  13. Danica
    Jul 15, 2009 @ 04:24:43

    I guess it’s the same for us girls falling in love with guys, too…


  14. A Free Spirit
    Oct 09, 2009 @ 07:04:49

    Are these ten part of an illusion that we are hard-wired to assume when we are in love? If so, can it be relied up in a long-term relationship?


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    Oct 21, 2009 @ 23:27:37

    Ford Prefect managed to change it a little before getting stuck on Earth. ,


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  17. Amber
    Sep 26, 2011 @ 23:53:33

    Definitely agree with your comments, but I’ve found that forgetting about an ex partner is something people are finding harder and harder to do with social media and other new ways to keep in touch.

    If it gets bad enough, I even tell people to delete an ex off their accounts just to get them off their minds! Amber – what to say to get your ex back


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